Own Your Glow: Stepping into Your Feminine with Your Partner

Jun 22, 2024By Ebony Knight
Ebony Knight

Own Your Glow: Stepping into Your Feminine with Your Partner


Hey Queens! Let's talk about the fire within. That undeniable magic that makes you, you. We're all about owning our power, slaying our goals, and being the boss babes we were born to be. But there's another side to the story, sis. A side where we get to soften, surrender a little, and tap into that deep well of feminine energy. 

Now, hold up before you think this means becoming some delicate damsel in distress. Nah sis, that ain't the vibe. ‍ Being put in your feminine by your man is about creating a beautiful dance, a harmonious exchange of energy. It's about feeling safe, cherished, and empowered to express your softer side.

Outdoor protrait of black african american couple - Guy carrying girfriend on his back

So, what does it actually look like?

Imagine this: You've had a long day, hustling hard and conquering the world. Your man notices the tension in your shoulders, the slight furrow in your brow. He pulls you close, gives you a massage (because a real king knows the power of a good rub down!), and whispers sweet nothings in your ear. In that moment, all that toughness you project can soften. You can let him take care of you, breathe a sigh of relief, and just be held.

Being put in your feminine is not about weakness, but about trust. It's knowing your partner has your back, that you can be vulnerable without the fear of judgment. It's creating a space where you can be both that strong, independent woman he loves, as well as the sensual, nurturing soul he craves.

But how does it feel?

Girl, when your man truly sees you, celebrates you, and helps you tap into your feminine energy, it's a whole new vibe! It feels like coming home to yourself. You feel cherished, respected, and adored for all that you are and all that you do. It ignites a spark of confidence that comes from knowing you're loved and supported, no matter what.

Outdoor protrait of black african american couple embracing each other

Here's the thing, though Sis: This dance of the masculine and feminine is not a one-way street. You gotta show up for your man too. Respect his hustle, appreciate his strength, and create a space where he can feel secure and valued. It's a beautiful give-and-take constant exchange of energy that keeps the fire burning.

Remember, Queens:

Communication is key. Talk to your partner about what makes you feel cherished and supported. Open communication is essential for creating a healthy and balanced relationship.
Don't lose your fire. Being feminine doesn't mean becoming passive. You can still be the strong, independent woman you are while allowing yourself to be vulnerable and loved on.
Embrace the journey. This dance of the masculine and feminine is a continuous exploration. There will be bumps along the road, but the beauty lies in the learning and the growth.


So, the next time your man gives you that look, the one that makes your heart skip a beat, embrace it. Let him put you in your feminine, and revel in the feeling of being loved and cherished for the multifaceted queen you are.

Now go forth, own your glow, and write your own love story!